About us
A place for couples and singles to meet like-minded people
Respect and honesty come first in everything we do.
- Free to join
- Adults only, 18+
- Support on call 24/7
Our mission
We want to help couples, single women and single men find other like-minded people, with respect and honesty at the center of everything we do.
What you will find here
Joining is free. You can make a profile, say what you are open to, browse members, get daily match suggestions and message other members. VIP is an optional upgrade if you want unrestricted messaging.
Your privacy
You decide what goes on your profile, and your personal details are not shown on the site. Private messages are encrypted. Our email systems are SenderScore certified, and we only email you about activity on your profile, with an easy way to opt out.
Help when you need it
Our team is here around the clock, all year, to answer questions and help with anything about your experience on the site. The safety page explains what the site does to protect you.
Community rules
Every member agrees to eight simple rules. They keep the site friendly, discreet and safe.
- Adults only. This site is strictly 18 and over.
- Genuine members only. We have protection measures to keep fake accounts out, and ID verification is free and optional. Members may not market goods or services.
- Be kind. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Be courteous in messages, chat rooms and comments, and if someone is not your type, say so respectfully.
- Be tolerant. Members come from many backgrounds and we want an inclusive space. We do not allow racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism or any other discrimination or hate speech.
- Be safe. Keep first conversations on the site, where you can use the report button if something goes wrong. Never share your bank details, and never send money or gift cards. People with bad intentions can slip through, so trust your instincts.
- Be discreet. Not everyone here wants to be recognized in the real world. If you see another member in public, only approach them if they have clearly said you may.
- Respect boundaries. We do not tolerate harassment. If someone says no, move on. Ask for consent before sharing images, and respect people's comfort zones when a conversation moves forward.
- Follow the law. No messages or media about illegal activity, including violence and drugs.
Common questions
How much does it cost?
Joining is free. VIP and VIP Plus are optional, for members who want more.
What does VIP mean?
VIP members can message without limits, use advanced search filters, join exclusive chat rooms, start private group chats and see everyone who likes them. VIP Plus adds exclusive matches and priority placement.
Will you fill my inbox with spam?
No. We only email you about activity on your profile, and you can opt out.
Are there community rules?
Yes, eight of them, listed above. The short version: adults only, be kind, be discreet and take no for an answer.